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We
in the world of dogs and dog shows have a tendency to
presume that we are somehow immune to the moral and ethical
frailties and resulting bad behavior that beset the rest of
humanity, that somehow just being in our sport endows us
with the ability to know good behavior from bad and always
to act on that knowledge. We forget that we represent just a
small slice of our society at large, a microcosm of a much
wider world. Are we not all humans who have found a little
niche that suits us and gives us pleasure, bringing to that
endeavor all of the strengths and weaknesses of character
that we would have taken, or in many cases also take, to our
other pursuits?
A few recent television broadcasts have
highlighted this tendency in all of us. Breeders, judges,
delegates—everyone seems to be outraged at the ridiculous
and false way we have been portrayed as dog people in
various media outlets. Many of the current television series
portray some other groups just as badly or worse than we, as
a sport, are portrayed in these series. Shouldn’t we all be
ashamed…as human beings and not just as dog enthusiasts?
How does the typical stay-at-home
mother feel about Desperate Housewives, in which that
segment of our society is suicidal, adulterous, failures as
parents and spouses and citizens? How does the typical
funeral director feel about the dysfunctional family in Sex
Feet Under? And let’s not even talk about carnival owners
and laborers.
Every lawyer is not an
ambulance-chasing crook. Every car salesman is not a greedy
cheat. Every priest is not a child molester. And yet every
one of us, at this moment, can recall several jokes about
each of these groups of people. How do the good and honest
members of these groups deal with these false and overblown
portrayals? They do so by knowing that jokes, like the news
and like entertainment, must represent the extreme or they
will fail. That is the only way that much of our society
becomes interesting in our modern culture, in which, as the
author Poshard wrote in his book with the same title, we are
Amusing Ourselves to Death.
Almost everything in our culture is now
entertainment; it just took our sport awhile to catch up.
And the trend started long ago, perhaps as long ago as the
introduction of the telegraph, about which Henry David
Thoreau wrote in the Wisconsin State Journal: “We are in
great haste to construct a magnetic telegraph from Maine to
Texas; but Maine and Texas, it may be, have nothing
important to communicate,” at least not as entertaining as
necessary for an audience inundated with entertainment.
In the end, in a highly visible and
exploitable world, it is all about character, and we should
not expect participants in our sport to behave in ways that
are contrary to their nature and we cannot expect that only
people with unassailable principles will join us. In the
end, character really does matter.
When exhibitors arrive at the show and
take up ten parking places with orange cones, laying claim
to their piece of real estate with screams and threats, do
we believe that same person is not rude and overbearing in
the waiting line at the theatre or will not push a grocery
cart in front of anyone to check out first?
When able-bodied exhibitors get
handicapped parking permits to enable them to park close to
the ring and then show five German Shepherds and three
Boxers that day, do we believe that they are honest about
their lack of real disability in the course of their non-dog
show lives - when parking at Wal-Mart - leaving the truly
handicapped without a space?
When exhibitors fail to clean up after
their dogs at shows or motel grounds, do we have any reason
to believe that they pick up after their dogs, or their
children, at home or in public parks?
When exhibitors of toy dogs bring ten
crates under the judging tent ringside during judging
despite the rules against this being printed in the premium
list and posted at the show, do we believe that they follow
the annoying little rules of life that we all resent,
sometimes question, but usually follow. We do so because
those irritating rules are what keep the world from chaos?
And lack of character and the resulting
bad behavior flows both ways. When a parent tries to bribe a
coach or a teacher to give a child special privileges or
better grades, why would we think this person would not
attempt to bribe a judge for a higher win. Why would this
person hesitate to whisper those sweet nothings that involve
specialty wins and group firsts to the judge during the
dog’s examination?
When a man beats his wife or physically abuses his children,
what in the world would prevent him from neglecting or
mistreating his dogs properly at a dog event? When someone
fails to meet financial obligations involving car payments
and credit card bills, are we surprised to learn that the
same person owes hundreds of dollars to the show
photographers or the handlers. People who write bad checks
to the grocer will also write bad checks to the
superintendent.
Does an honest person suddenly, in his
dog show judging duties, award high honors to undeserving
dogs in exchange for promises of foreign judging
assignments? Does a principled exhibitor make such offers?
The very nature of our dog shows offers more than normal
temptations for bad behavior, because it is both competitive
and subjective. We must have a competitive component to our
collective personality or we wouldn’t be in this or any
other sport.
The area of our sport that supplies the
most stringent test of character is breeding. In addition to
the requisite skills of science and artistic gifts, the
breeding of dogs, at the highest level, requires courage,
honesty (with both ourselves and others), fairness in all of
our arrangements and, above all, humility. And to continue
for any length of time requires great resiliency in the face
of failure and disappointment.
In addition to the ethical components
of a planned breeding, including potential health and
temperament of the resulting puppies and the condition of
the bitch producing the litter, all of the strengths and
weaknesses of character are brought to bear in the selling
of the puppies. Are we honest about their show potential? Do
we dispassionately evaluate the sire and dam? Are we placing
the dogs in homes that are appropriate for the breed and the
individual pups? Are our financial and contractual dealings
all fair and above board?
None of us is perfect, we bring to this
hobby, as we do to all activities, strengths and weaknesses
of judgment and of character. But everyone can only conduct
himself in the manner that his own character allows.
Although we can ask and hope for the best, and make and
enforce rules that punish the offenders, we should not be so
disappointed when our own fellow enthusiasts transgress. And
we should not collectively take the blame. In the end, the
offending persons who seem to embarrass us so much are only
embarrassing themselves. When we count the great things
about living in our country, surely one of the greatest is
the freedom for everyone to make complete fools of
themselves. Some even get paid for it.
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